Falling in love is a different thing and being in love forever is a different thing. The ones who are in relationships will already know this, right? A relationship is more than just heading out on candlelight dinners, it’s more than those cuddles or kisses — it requires a hell lot of patience, efforts, and most importantly giving time to each other. The common mistake which most people in relationships do is that they focus on what to gift their partners on their birthdays or which place to take their SO on a romantic vacation. What they don’t understand is that the mini efforts are the ones that matter the most. Maybe giving a warm hug before you both leave for your respective works would give each other the strength to pass through the new day no matter how rough it turns out to be, right?
Often, people take relationships for granted. They never pay heed to the emotions involved in a relationship, neither do they pay respect to care for each other when it’s required the most.
The key here is to be consistent with your love, your care, and your worries for your loved one. And we get it, doing all of this doesn’t come naturally to many. Often people find themselves in confusion as to what these tiny gestures or mini efforts mean. This is precisely why we’ve laid down a list of efforts that you should be making every day to keep your partner and you happy. Read on to know more.
1. Keep The Phone Down
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As much as you feel connected with your partner because of your phones no matter where you both are; when you head out on a date or are trying to spend some quality time together, we suggest that you let go of your phones while doing so. You’ll probably stare into your partner’s eyes with love a little more, you would probably get a peck or two extra as well *winks*. Let the time unfold without any distractions.
2. Plan The Relationship Even If It’s Just You Who’s Doing It
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You shouldn’t always depend on your partner to make decisions for you. And you don’t have to wait for it either. The small decisions that need to be taken in a relationship, can be taken individually, all by yourself as well. That way, your partner too is assured that you’re serious about the relationship and you have no problem taking a few initiatives on your own as well.
3. Have Heart-to-heart Talks And Check On Each Other Regularly
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We all know how the smallest crack in mental health can lead to unexplainable disturbances in the head, right? Mental health is the most sensitive. Therefore, every now and then check-in on your partners. Sit and talk to them, try to find out if they’re doing well or if there’s something that’s bothering them the most. It’s very important for the well-being of the relationship as well.
Practicing this habit will not only make the other person feel better, but it will also build trust in them, and open doors for intimate moments as well.
4. Put Efforts To Look Good For Your Partner
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It’s very important to look good for your partner. Let’s not forget that attraction too is one of the vital elements of a happy relationship. So, try different styles, put efforts to look at your best self for your partner. Also, practice good grooming, it’s essential to have a healthy relationship with your partner. And if you feel you don’t have to do it for your partner, then, do it for yourself. Taking care of your body is the first step to leading a healthy life.
5. Express In Both Verbal And Non-verbal Ways
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Your partner cannot just think that you love him/ her and feel good about it. You need to put effort to show your love and affection to them. It’s always a nice feeling to feel loved or wanted. It feels good to know that your absence can fill a void in someone’s life, right? Therefore express verbally, there’s no limit to say “I love you” in a day. Also, express non-verbally, give a hug every day, or maybe cook your partner their favorite dish to make them happy. Do whatever it takes to keep yourself and your partner in a happy relationship. This will make your partner feel that they are the priority in your life.
6. Be Open And Honest To Them ALWAYS
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They don’t just say “honesty is the best policy”. There’s a valid reason for a proverb like that to exist. And trust us, you might want to adhere to this proverb throughout your entire relationship. Be honest with your partner no matter what. This will make your partner trust your way of thinking and your actions. Being honest will help a relationship grow in a positive light. Therefore, be open and very frank about your views in the relationship.
At the back of our heads, we might think that these small efforts can be given a miss. But they are vital to keep the freshness in a relationship alive. Do you agree with this? Let us know in the comments below. And, happy loving peeps!
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