
Welcome to Style Diaries, a series where we research the physical manifestations of our closet tours IRL. We're asking friends and tastemakers to show us what they're *actually* wearing during the week and to provide a little insight into their thoughts on personal style.
“In this era, I'm all about oversized everything,” says Moda Operandi social director Kristen Grace Lam. “I like more masculine shapes. I tend to shop in the men's section a lot. I don't really show too much skin, but if I do, it's very purposeful,” she rattles off excitedly. “I love a good oversized silhouette, but I think now that I'm a little bit older, I realize I can't just wear oversized everything.” She plays with proportions and materials. She balances a bulky jacket with a micro mini skirt. A sparkly dress? Sharp tailoring. Everything fancy she offsets with something casual.
Career-wise, Lam is responsible for translating luxury e-commerce site Moda Operandi’s fashion ethos to their social media accounts. A knowledge of what’s current in fashion comes with the job description. In addition to her primary market desires (and aptitude)—namely long skirts and the Hailey Bieber Wardrobe.NYC coat—Lam is prone to falling down her fair share of vintage rabbit holes.. Currently, she’s hunting for the perfect racer jacket. “I know that there are leather jackets out there that just need some love,” she muses (see look three). The resulting assemblage of Lam’s interests and expertise always manages to capture that elusive “effortless” vibe. Below, Lam walks us through a diary of each look she wears in a week.
Look 1: Monday


“On Monday morning, obviously no one wants to ever get dressed. If you catch me somewhere on the street, I'm probably wearing some iteration of what I’m wearing here—a pair of really roomy trousers, easy stomper boots if it's gross outside, sneakers or even slip-ons. And then I'll [steal] my boyfriend's oversized T-shirt or long sleeve and a puffer vest or a puffer jacket or something. That's the Monday look. The necklace looks heavy, but it's very, very light and it just goes with everything. The more you wear it, the less shiny it is, which I like.”
Cropped Puffer Vest

4 Moncler Hyke Cotton T-shirt

Cotton Cargo Pants

Audrey Necklace

Square-frame Acetate Sunglasses

Uniqueform Leather 85mm Ankle Boots

Look 2: Tuesday


“Tuesday, that's my drinks-with-girls look. I'm really into leather right now, especially leather racer jackets. I've been making my boyfriend come thrifting and vintage shopping with me because I know that there are leather jackets out there that just need some love. I'm looking for those. I like to add the masculine piece to something that's a little bit more girly. I paired the beaded mini skirt with the oversized shirt and leather jacket. Going out with my girls, I'm going dancing. I'm going out for drinks. I need mobility. I need movement. This is TMI, but even with only half a drink, I just get so hot. I need to have layers. I need something that's airy even during the winter, but obviously I still want to look cute and sexy. So that's the vibe.”
Faded Leather Jacket

Kayla White Cotton Shirt

Beaded Silk Mini Skirt

Verda Embroidered Knee-high Boots

Monogram Graffiti Pochette Accessories

Look 3: Wednesday


“Wednesday is my office look. We go to the office at least one day a week. So my third outfit is definitely the most polished and the most office appropriate, especially for the winter with the gloves. They are Marine Serre, of course—got them on the SSENSE sale. And I’ve got my bag from The Row that’s amazing; it even fits my laptop. I try to take such good care of it. The sunglasses are the same Saint Laurent pair I wore before. Honestly, if you can’t tell, those are the only ones I wear. They're perfect. The shoes are old Celine. They were my first designer purchase ever.”
Tanner Blazer Jacket

Strapless Sheer Knit Top

Low-waisted Pencil Skirt

All Over Moon Gloves

Margaux 15 Leather Tote Bag

Zipped Boots Celine Joan

Look 4: Thursday


“Thursday, we've got the date night look. It's more ladylike. It's a little bit more covered up. The dress is Diotima—I think she's the queen of crochet. The way she weaves crystals into crochet is incredible. I'm actually starting to [experiment] more with makeup but my daily, everyday makeup is what you see there. If I'm going out, I'll contour a little bit, but usually I start with eyebrows, eyeliner, blush, obviously some lip balm, and then some lipstick. And I would say depending on what the occasion is, I'll change up the color of the lip.”
Marina Sequin Net Knit Midi Dress

Apex Structured Shoulder Stretch-Wool Coat

Mini Cloud Clutch

Nunakedstraight Strap Sandal

Pearl, Resin & 14kt Gold-plated Earrings

Look 5: Friday


“Friday's my easy day—my no-wash hair day. So hats are always welcome. I have a lot of ‘47 Brand hats. Those are the ones that fit my head really, really well. I always gravitate towards denim, a white t-shirt or tank top, and an oversized overcoat, whether it's a camel coat—the one I wore—or a vintage gray one. The jeans are like 10 years old from RE/DONE. The jacket is the WARDROBE.NYC Hailey Bieber overcoat. They only had the medium left—the small would've fit me better—but I kind of love the oversized look. I'm wearing my checkered Vans that honestly, I have four pairs of, because I need at least a couple pairs on deck just in case something happens to the other ones.”
Bailey Tank

70s High-rise Straight-leg Jeans

Hailey Bieber Double-breasted Wool Coat

New York Yankees ‘47 Clean Up

Margaux 15 Leather Tote Bag

Classic Slip-on Stackform Shoe

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